Sherri called me just after the doctor had come in to see Dad. It was about 5:30PM tonight. I had asked for the gastroenterologist that we have used before but he was unavailable. His associate came in. The nurse told Sherri that both doctors were really good. He said that the results of Dad's blood work showed that his potassium level was too low and his sodium was too high to be able to have anesthesia. They will have to get all of that regulated with the IV drip before placing the feeding tube. At this time they anticipate accomplishing that on Wednesday. He said that he would only remain in the hospital long enough to make sure that Dad tolerates it well. When I talked to the doctor yesterday, he indicated that it would only be a matter of 12 to 24 hours to regulate things before he would return to the nursing home. Hopefully, he will be able to return to be with Mom on Thursday.
Sherri plans to take Mom up to see Dad in the hospital tomorrow morning. Mom is understandably more confused with all of this happening. Fortunately, she is loved at the nursing home and will be well cared for and Sherri is keeping her informed of all that is going on. And, as I know more, I will keep all of you who may be interested, informed.
As I read back over my previous post, I realize that I did not make something clear. This procedure will be what keeps Dad alive and healthy for the rest of his life. There is no anticipation of it ever being removed as his swallowing capabilities no longer function. This is a "normal" and frequent result of the aging process for some people. Dad will have the food in his mouth and you can tell him to swallow until the cows come home but it just doesn't make it happen. You can see the wheels turning, trying to do it, you can even rub his throat (which works for babies) and it won't help. I am thankful that we live in a time when this sort of procedure is possible as I am not quite ready to give my Dad up yet. He still has a personality that shows through and his sense of humor is still intact.
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Just read this update after commenting on the previous post. I'm sorry for the delay. It sounds like it will still work out okay.
Thanks so much, Lois, for keeping us so well informed. It makes us not feel so far away. Your loving care for Mom and Dad is so deeply appreciated!!
Paul
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